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I’m not so sure about your rule No1 Jenni
With your background in the marines, you may have the confidence.
However, most people suggest that confrontation can arise from too much eye contact, no matter who or what you are.
OK some young “ladettes” revel in this when they are drunk, but most R G S are advised not to do so.
For a TV it is generally suggested that eye contact is an easy way of getting clocked.
As for booze.
Yes it helps but can also lead to problems.
Guess some of the more experienced “outers” could help by sharing their advice.